Practical, Simple & Supportive
What to do first
In the days and weeks after a death, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the many tasks that need attention. This checklist is designed to help you navigate each step with confidence, from initial notifications to planning the funeral and managing practical matters afterwards. You can view it here or download a printable version to keep on hand.
Notify these people as soon as possible:
Immediate family members and close friends
Your chosen funeral director, to inform them of the death and begin the arrangements
The Gardaí, if the death was sudden or unexpected
A priest, minister or celebrant, if you wish to arrange a religious or civil ceremony
The deceased’s employer (and your own, if needed)
Meet with the Funeral Director to discuss:
Clothing for the deceased
Jewellery to be worn or returned
Type of funeral service (religious, civil or non-religious)
Reposing/viewing arrangements
Death notice or obituary wording
Burial or cremation preference
Cemetery plot booking (if needed)
Service or ceremony details (music, readings, speakers)
Clergy or celebrant involvement
Personal touches to reflect the person’s life
Flowers or charitable donations in lieu of flowers
Cost Awareness
Funeral Director Services May Include:
Choice of coffin or casket
Use of the funeral home and facilities
Collection and conveyance of remains
Embalming and final presentation of the deceased
Liaising with clergy, celebrants and third parties
Grave marker and coffin pad
Preparation and dressing of the grave
Condolence books and graveside amplification
Professional service fees
Typical Disbursements (Third-Party Costs):
Additional Costs (If Required):
